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You Already Have Life Systems (Even If You Don’t Call Them That!)

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Okay, let’s be real—life is a whole ass juggling act. Between work, kids, appointments, meals, and maybe sneaking in a shower (if you're lucky), you’re basically a project manager running a 24/7 operation. And yet… you make it work.


But here’s the thing—you might not realize you already have systems in place. Yep, Life Systems aren’t some fancy, complicated thing. They’re just the routines, habits, and processes that keep your life from completely falling apart.


Wait…You Already Have Life Systems?!

Ever noticed how you have a certain way of doing things? Like:


✅ The step-by-step process you follow to get the kids out the door without total chaos.

✅ That mental checklist you go through before leaving the house.

✅ The way you prep food for the week (even if it’s just making sure there are emergency nuggets in the freezer).


A mom meal prepping with daughter
Mom meal prepping

That’s a Life System. You didn’t call it that—you just built it out of necessity. But here’s the thing: not all systems actually make life easier. Some of them are low-key burning you out.


Why Some Systems Are Secretly Draining You

Your systems might be running on autopilot, but that doesn’t mean they’re optimized. Maybe you have a routine, but it still feels like a struggle every day. Maybe you have a way of organizing your kid’s school stuff, but papers still get lost.


A busy mom
Busy mom

Your Life Systems don’t need to be perfect—they just need to work for you, not against you.


How to Make Your Systems Work for You

Instead of stressing about creating new systems, let’s talk about tweaking what you already have:


1️⃣ Spot Your Systems. Notice the routines you already follow.

2️⃣ Ask: Is This Working? If something still feels chaotic, it probably needs adjusting.

3️⃣ Tweak & Simplify. Cut out unnecessary steps, get help where needed, or use a tool/template to make it smoother.


It’s not about adding more to your plate—it’s about making things flow better so you have less mental load.


Enjoying a cup of coffee
Enjoying a cup of coffee

You Got This

You don’t need to start from scratch. You’ve already built Life Systems—you just need to make sure they’re working for you, not making you work harder.


So if your current system involves a last-minute scramble and a silent “I hope this works”, don’t stress you’re not alone. Let’s make it easier.


What’s one routine or habit that keeps your day from going off the rails? Drop it in the comments. I love seeing how different Life Systems show up in real life!


Always wishing you a better today than yesterday,

Michelle 🥰🧡

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Notes from Michelle

You’ll get cozy life notes from me:  stories, Q&As, mindset resets, and my favorite tools from The Simplifying Life's Beautiful Bitchiness Rolodex that help simplify everyday life (without the burnout or the BS).

👉🏽 2–3 emails a week
👉🏽 The “Pull up a chair” + “How I handled it” chats
👉🏽 The occasional “holy-shit-that-makes-sense” moment
👉🏽 Friday drops from The SLBB Rolodex (my free resource list of tools + brands that make life a little less chaotic)

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